Nwatakri nna ya kooro ya akuko, ya na mbe bu otu Igbo proverb Emezie! Emezie!! That is how my name is called and only one person calls be by that name. his name, Ifeanyichukwu Linus Udechukwu. He was my father for 18 years and it has been fourteen years since I last heard that voice. Dear Daddy, Today makes it 14 years since...





"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." Mohandas Gandhi People join organizations for various reasons, it is same with relationships. . From personal fulfilment to value creation, to self-development and giving back; the essence isn't lost; there is a seeming compelling need to grow, to become better and to appreciate in terms of value and knowledge. No...
"The deeds you do may be the only sermon some persons will hear today." Francis of Assisi Dear Young Job Seeker, I have come to observe that the problem of many young people in our dear country is the lack of volunteering spirit. For those who do, they lack the discipline to document. They forget that accountability demands documentation. You must prepare for...
"Blessed are the hearts that can bend; they shall never be broken." Albert Camus *Dim oma*, The primary role of a man in marriage is to respect his wife while that of a woman is to submit to her husband. The man is expected to profess his love, provide for his beloved and then protect his wife from external aggression and even internal...
Loving for the love of love is the only way to love. Any man who
would marry a woman and not let her go to school to seek for more education to
her improve, and meet her personal aspirations is simply a modern "anumanu". Chimezie
Udechukwu
It's that simple!
We complain that children of today are not smart or Intelligent,
how will they be, when their mothers can't teach them anything because their
fathers allowed them to become full time housewives. "The reality of the
building does not consist in the roof and walls, but in the space within to be
lived in." Lao Tzu
Listen dear men, the wife that will cheat will cheat even if she's
holed up in a room, just pray there is no male around. Same goes for the women.
The husband that will cheat will surely do no matter how powerful your coverage
as a Personal Monitoring Spirits, PMS is.
It is an unwise, insecure and low esteemed man that would stop his
wife from acquiring education and I say this with strong annoyance to those
doing this or thinking of doing this especially men from the South-eastern and
northern Nigeria.
"Ever
more people today have the means to live, but no
meaning to live for." Viktor Frankyl I have heard things, both the mundane
and the outright stupid things! I weep in my soul for the stupidity of some
men. But I am optimistic that this silly trend will die soon.
in 2015, I lost a beautiful and brilliant friend because her husband who
married her when she was 18 didn’t allow her go to school. Even after three
children, he refused. She would later die just a few months to her 7th
wedding anniversary. Each time I remember her, I weep!
Dear brothers, learn to let your wives go to school! Empower them with
education. Goethe once said, “Things which matter most must never be at the
mercy of things which matter least." Education is important. It is only
the man who is afraid of the successes of his wife that will deny her
education.
Every development plan we were taught in development studies has
the people as its focus. When the people are taken off the radar of the
development agenda then there can be no meaningful improvement in the standard
of living. Investing in a woman’s education has far reaching dividends.
Of the six
elements upon which the Sustainable development goals SDGs stand, People and
Dignity better emphasizes the intent of this piece. The need to promote the
dignity of the human person goes beyond just ensuring that he lives
comfortably, but to make adequate provisions for the guaranteeing and promotion
of his fundamental human rights. This is where Love comes to play.
Remember,
love not expressed isn't love and one of such expressions of love is the
willingness to contribute the development and betterment of the other person.
How can I be with someone who doesn’t make be grow; who doesn’t inspire me to
want more, be more, dream more, do more and become more?
Yes there are many people suffering in silence. Many who have
made great sacrifices for their spouses to thrive; they have remained in the
background but then, it should be noted that the willingness of the heart in
letting go of past hurt does not make it cold and unscrupuled rather it shows
the warmth and life it contains - and only a matured and loving heart can do
this.
PS
If you don't horn your skills they die; if you don't develop your
talents then it's just there, when you fail to do these you lose the essence of
living and you can't make profit. Develop your talents, create value, serve
your purpose and make profit! God's blessings maketh rich and addeth no sorrow!
Your woman is in need of your development if you must enjoy the
journey or companionship with her.
This is specially dedicated to all the women who despite being denied, still make it a priority that their children must be educated . Your efforts will never be in vain!
OjisiEmezie