Udokwu Obiamaka: Dear Future Spouse



Today we feature a piece from a fan of this blog who was inspired by our dear future wife series. You too can write and share your views on this platform simply send them to ojisiemezie@gmail.com please do leave your comments at the comment section.

I would love to hear from you.


Dear Love,

It may seem dumb to write to you, but my feeling towards this  is super amazing. Thus, I am moved to put pen to paper. I hope this message gets to you. I can't reach you now but I will someday. I may not be close to you in your hard trials; I know not your real face; I cannot drive to your door but my prayers will. I know not where to book a flight in order to deliver this message to you in person, yet, although we may not have met, I want you to know that I am here.

I have a world -- family, friends, dream, purpose, vision, passion -- and I long for the day when our worlds will cross the same paths. My heart  yearns for the moment we will get to share and grow our worlds together. My heart waits in patience for you, my love, because it has chosen  you. How arousing the day would be when all I possess within will be yours and yours mine and with this delightful thoughts I chant the witty sayings of Solomon in Song of Songs 6:3 "I am my beloved my beloved is mine...."

My dearest, when we finally attain our matrimony, let's not ostracize our creator from ourselves. By the way, I pray to be the chaste wife of a loyal husband. As long as we are on earth, suffering will always be the touchstone of love, but I anticipate to embrace your daily arrival with warm kisses. I pledge to stand by you and not to compare your actions; to be the best for you and fill your ears with glamorous praises of you. 

To fall in love is a catastrophic disease. And the only possible treatment, with which I have found myself, is to be nothing else but yours. Hence, I will continue to tread on my path cautiously as you guard and trust me daily. I want to share loving memories with you; I want us to be an epitome of love of which we gain eternal bliss.

My love, when I am taken as your exquisite queen, I want to remain yours for I am a jealous lover. I want you to know that you are loved and immensely precious to my heart and to the heart of God. The best thing you can ever possess that is paramount is the love of our father. He is my friend and my all; he has touched me; and sincerely i want to see him in you whenever I meet you.

I know we are striving for perfection. I could be career driven, too calm, stubborn, maybe possess a bit of ego, but i long for the day when i will give you all the happiness in this world. Temptation is real; it is hard to overcome;  but for you, my love, i will overcome. Let this guide you as well. Right now, it  seems the world is on my shoulders; i need you. And my prayers of you is always on my lips. Ooh! How i will adorn every moment with you like a piece of jewel.

Till then stay with my Saviour and may your heart burn with love for God. 

As you receive this, which would make your heart filled with joy, rejoice more because it is our creator that inspires me and has made me a MODEST WOMAN.


Udokwu, Obiamaka Patricia is an undegraduate of the prestigious University of Lagos(UNILAG). She is studying English and concurrently a student of Chinese at the Confucius institute, UNILAG. She is a young cum budding writer who has a flair for communication, broadcast and print journalism. However, she finds it worthwhile to read inspiring books, sing, and hang out with nice-intellectual guys.

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  1. I enjoyed reading your piece; Obiamaka.

    Ojisie thanks for this platform mana hurry make we know this future wife cos I have a lot to tell herπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    1. Thanks ma'am.

      Can start saying some here so she can see.

  2. I enjoyed reading your piece; Obiamaka.

    Ojisie thanks for this platform mana hurry make we know this future wife cos I have a lot to tell herπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

  3. Thanks for this opportunity Ojisi, God bless.